Human psych is such an interesting object of study. You have friends and you don't think twice before making an odd-joke that makes the entire gang burst out into laughter. You think you are the star of the show without realizing you might have actually hurt someone. Your stupid attempt to be the maverick of the group is at the expense of that dear friend and you don't even think post making that snide remark.
It's only when you are at the other end of the arrow you realize your stupidity and then you can't stop thinking about how foolish you were. You try to defend your logic and your own words continue to bind you.
We all think, what is the right way to behave in a situation. How many times, we come out of an Interview and think, Shit! I should Have answered that in this manner or the first date you have, you think 'Damn! Am I making sense? Is she Bored ?'. Well, I think the answer is there is No right way to behave. There can be no two people who behave in the same manner and have exact same opinion. Each conversation, Each fight you have and Each post-explanation phase is a new Learning curve.
So, Don't shy away from saying you are sorry, coz you never know you might be at the other end of the barrel and then you'd remember all the times you wanted to say sorry and give your best friend a tight hug, which you didn't.
Cheers!!
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